David and I like to celebrate anniversaries two ways: a trip somewhere or a dinner date.

We don’t always go somewhere far or eat somewhere fancy and we usually alternate between the two because of school schedules or to save money, but during a pandemic neither option seemed safe. Plus, we wanted to share this milestone with our friends and family who have been through the different stages of our lives—as individuals and together as a couple.

So, I asked on my Instagram what people wanted to know about us and we answered those questions in our Couple Q&A on YouTube. We share some memories, our secrets to thriving in our relationship, and a lot of laughs.

While we didn’t get to celebrate our 10 year anniversary in the ways we typically do, we had a lot of fun filming this together. We don’t document our lives together frequently (David’s pretty camera shy) and we probably wouldn’t have thought to ask each other all these questions, so this video is pretty special.

Thank you for helping us create this special moment that we can replay and share.

We’re not going to lie, it is hard quarantining together and finding joy during this pandemic, but these shared experiences also bring us closer together. Answering your questions helped us get closer still. We hope to bring you a bit of joy (and the secrets to a long and happy relationship) through this video.

Here’s the questions we answer!

To skip ahead to hear our answer to a certain question, watch the video on YouTube for timestamps.

1. What’s the most adventurous things you’ve tried?

2. Do you feel the pressure to spice it up?

3. What have you been learning together recently?

4. Do you miss being single? If so, why?

5. What do you think is important in a partner?

6. What is important in a relationship?

7. What is your secret to a long and happy relationship?

8. What is your biggest challenge as a couple?

9. If there was something you could change about your partner what would it be?

10. What do you think David's pet peeve is about you? Jel's pet peeve about David?

11. What's your favorite thing about each other?

12. What's the thing you appreciate the most about each other?

13. What kinds of pets are you getting next?

14. When is the wedding?

15. When are the babies coming?

Watch the bloopers on Instagram.

If you have questions we didn’t answer, leave them in the comments below and we’ll answer as many as we can! Let us know if you want more couple advice, stories, or videos in the future, too.

Thanks again, friends. Sending you virtual hugs and lots of smiles.